Bali is not Brasil, Mexico, or L. There is theft, murder and rape like in any other country in the world. These crimes are committed by Balinese, Javanese, Australians, And law enforcement is not what one would like to see and expect when one is in trouble. Money rules, and money talks everywhere, where alcohol, drugs and prostitution create this crazy mixture that attracts a certain crowd mainly in Kuta. Most crimes happen in the Kuta area where very very drunk youngsters who have lost the grip on things can become easy targets.
Stay away from drugs and excessive drinking. Bali is a peaceful place, but going "down that road" in Bali increases the chances drastically to end up mugged, hurt or in deep trouble. And suddenly Bali can show a side that is far off paradise. Girls going out alone are generally safe, but it's always good to be alert and to set clear boundaries when guys of any nationality with a few Bintang beers too much feel encouraged by reading the signs the wrong way, in certain situations.
Although this happens rarely, in some cases also Indonesian youngsters got pushy around Kuta area very late at night after they run into single women who were obviously drunk. Stay with friends as you would in any other big city when you have a glass or two too much. Bali Beach Boys: The Bali Beach boys that hang out mostly at Kuta Beach and Legian Beach are never too shy to approach foreign women - age and looks don't matter to them, they look for the willingness for interaction.
If they start to bug you, give them a clear feedback that you are not interested. And if you are neither in the mood to talk to a stranger or to accept his all so kind offer to help you put sun-lotion on your body, tell them clearly so. Also here, setting clear boundaries is important. They would never dare asking an Indonesian women, let alone touch one.
It's not appropriate in their culture. Some of the Bali beach boys who start holiday affairs with tourists have actually not just one girlfriend, but many.. Some foreign ladies come to Bali regularly and enjoy a good time as a couple, and pay the bills. Some beach boys are married and have children, while the wives do know about the business that brings in some extra cash. It's between adults what happens between adults, but many foreign women - young and old - had to realize that nothing is at it seems and that true love between a Balinese Surf Guide and a lady from abroad is not easy to find in that kind of holiday setting.
